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💌 Part 1: Dear Me, I Forgive You
I forgive you for chasing approval from people who never learned how to love you without conditions. For staying too long where your light was dimmed. For all the “should have known better” moments that still echo when you close your eyes.
You did the best you could with what you knew at the time.
kelseyclay9
2 days ago2 min read


Faith Over Doubt
It reminded me that doubt doesn’t cancel out faith; it gives it room to grow. Faith isn’t loud or fancy—it’s scribbled in the margins…
kelseyclay9
6 days ago2 min read


The Many Versions of Me: A Hilariously Honest Look at How I Apparently Exist in Everyone’s Mind
Sometimes people see something in you that isn’t actually about you — it’s about them. Their own fears, insecurities, or expectations paint over who you really are.
To one person, I’m “too sensitive.” To another, I’m “strong.” To someone else, I’m “too opinionated,” while another says I “inspire honesty.” All the same woman. All true. All false.
kelseyclay9
Oct 215 min read


Rooted in Grace 🌿
I’ve stopped trying to erase my memories; now, I water them with gratitude. Because every heartbreak, every misstep, every wilted season tau
kelseyclay9
Oct 201 min read


Growing Together Through the Seasons of Marriage
What I love most is he still make me laugh harder than anyone ever could. That laughter has carried us through seasons of stress
kelseyclay9
Oct 182 min read


Seasons of the Soul
These wild plants, resilient and unrefined, remind me that God’s design is rarely about perfection — it’s about persistence. They don’t question the wind or fight the frost. They trust the rhythm of the Creator’s hand.
kelseyclay9
Oct 172 min read


Through My Own Lens: A Journey from Survival to Soul Revival
When I reached a crossroads — tired of the noise in my head, ready to stop pretending everything was fine —I turned back to something familiar: writing.
Blogging became my map when I had no sense of direction.
kelseyclay9
Oct 163 min read


Remembering the Developing Mind: Why We Must Honor the Cognitive Growth of Our Children.
As our understanding of the human brain continues to evolve, so must our compassion. Teaching is a sacred vocation that requires meeting children where they are — developmentally, emotionally, and cognitively. Let us strive to build environments where respect flows both ways, where empathy guides instruction, and where children can grow into confident adults who do not bear the scars of their school years.
kelseyclay9
Oct 153 min read


Open Doors: Where Religion Meets Spirituality
There’s something about an open door that speaks to both the heart and the soul. It’s an invitation — a passage between what is known and what is still waiting to be discovered. In many ways, that’s how I see the dance between religion and spirituality . Both reach toward God, both seek light and peace, yet they travel slightly different paths to find Him. Each invites us to step closer to the Divine, to walk through a doorway that opens into something greater than ourselves.
kelseyclay9
Oct 143 min read


The Profound Gift of My Firstborn: A Journey Through Parenthood and Self-Discovery
Becoming a parent is a landmark event in life, and for many people, the arrival of a firstborn child is the defining moment. The experience of holding that little one for the first time is extraordinary. It's a whirlwind of emotions—joy, fear, love, and sometimes even frustration. One moment, you're cradling a tiny baby, and before you know it, you have a lively toddler who seems to have mastered the art of giving orders. This journey truly makes you reflect on how quickly ti
kelseyclay9
Oct 144 min read


Celebrating the Special Spirit of My Middle Child and His Incredible Journey
Parenting is an adventure filled with unique experiences, challenges, and moments of pure joy. Among the many roles we play, being the mother of a middle child st ands out as especially rewarding. Middle children often have a distinct set of traits that make them shine, and my middle child exemplifies this beautifully. His passion, drive, and ability to make anyone smile take my breath away. The Heart of a Middle Child Middle children occupy a fascinating spot in family dynam
kelseyclay9
Oct 144 min read


The Reality of Labor Augmentation: A Journey Through Pain and Personal Growth
Warm family moments captured at home with my two sons who adore their newborn sister. Photo courtesy of Sweet Tea Photography. Labor is often seen as a beautiful and transformative experience. However, the reality can be much more complicated for many women. The journey can be filled with unexpected challenges and emotional ups and downs. This post shares my personal experience with labor augmentation, highlighting the struggles I faced and the valuable lessons I learned alon
kelseyclay9
Oct 143 min read
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