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🌺A Wildflower Expressions Blog Healing has become something people feel strangely entitled to evaluate. As if there’s a correct pace. A socially acceptable presentation. A quiet, humble version that doesn’t take up space or shimmer too loudly. But healing was never meant to be performed for approval. It’s an internal process — and it belongs solely to the person doing the work. I read a post recently that offended me, and for a moment I couldn’t understand why. Instead of re

A Wildflower Expressions Blog 🌺 On December 21st, I step into my thirty third year of life, and before I move forward, I need to pause. Not because I am tired, although yes, but because the woman I am now deserves to look back and say we made it. From 2021 to now, life did not just test me. It tried to dismantle me. Three mental breaks. Three moments where everything inside me said I cannot do this anymore. And yet, I did. I rebuilt from scratch more times than I can count.

A Wildflower Expressions Blog There is a generation above us who carry a quiet kind of wisdom that the world seems to be losing track of. They come from a time built on calloused hands, slow mornings, and communities that leaned into one another instead of pulling apart. It was a time when hard work was not a slogan or something you admired from afar. It was a rhythm. It was a way of life. Neighbors borrowed sugar, shared milk, watched each other’s children, and trusted the p

Reconnection is a reminder that nothing true is ever lost. It may go quiet. It may rest beneath the surface for a while.

A Wildflower Expressions Blog There’s a quiet rhythm to the world, an unseen current that runs through all of us. Energy. Not the kind you can measure or calculate, but the kind you feel move through your chest, your mind, and your spirit. It flows through your thoughts. It settles into your breath. It shapes how you show up in your day. Just like water, energy moves best when it’s allowed to flow. 🌾 When Energy Gets Stuck Sometimes we get so caught up in doing everything “r

A Wildflower Expressions Reflection on Growth, Boundaries & Sacred Love There comes a moment on every woman’s journey - that quiet, trembling moment - when your heart whispers a truth you’ve been trying to ignore: “I can’t keep watering a garden that refuses to grow with me.” It’s not anger. It’s not bitterness. It’s not revenge or resentment. It’s release. It’s growth. It’s the soft, sacred knowing that your spirit has outgrown the space you’ve been squeezing yourself into.

A Wildflower Expressions Blog 🌼 Gentle Parenting vs. Permissive Parenting: Why They’re Not the Same (And Why I Chose Gentle) There’s this running joke online that “gentle parenting is just letting kids run wild with fairy dust and zero consequences.” Except—no. Absolutely not. Gentle parenting is not permissive parenting. One is wildflower wild—soft, rooted, resilient. The other is more like… dandelion fluff in the wind—floating wherever the breeze takes it. And that differe

An honest reflection on being the outsider — learning to stand firm in your purpose, embrace grace over doubt

Each phrase redirects the moment. It’s small, but it’s enough.

And when you create from the heart, something magical happens: the universe starts to move with you.

You’ve sat in hospital waiting rooms, folded laundry at midnight, and held my hand through panic and pain. You’ve seen me at my worst —

Our children deserve more than artificial color and chemical sweetness. They deserve foods that nourish their bodies, not confuse them.

No one spoke peace into me the way you could with just one breath. I thought I’d lost you when life got heavy, but really, you were teaching me that belief isn’t built in the light — it’s built in the dark.

The idea of dressing up and visiting homes wasn’t new either. Medieval Europeans had a tradition called “souling,” where the poor would go door-to-door offering prayers for the dead in exchange for food. Later, children began to take over the custom — dressing up and performing little songs or tricks in exchange for sweets or coins.

Dear Anxiety, We’ve been together for a long time — longer than I care to admit. You showed up uninvited and convinced me I needed you to survive. You told me if I kept worrying, I could prevent bad things from happening. If I stayed alert, I’d stay safe. If I stayed small, I wouldn’t disappoint anyone. For a while, I believed you. You were the background noise of my life — whispering what ifs into my coffee, stealing my breath at red lights, following me into grocery aisles

I forgive you for chasing approval from people who never learned how to love you without conditions. For staying too long where your light was dimmed. For all the “should have known better” moments that still echo when you close your eyes. You did the best you could with what you knew at the time.

It reminded me that doubt doesn’t cancel out faith; it gives it room to grow. Faith isn’t loud or fancy—it’s scribbled in the margins…

Sometimes people see something in you that isn’t actually about you — it’s about them. Their own fears, insecurities, or expectations paint over who you really are. To one person, I’m “too sensitive.” To another, I’m “strong.” To someone else, I’m “too opinionated,” while another says I “inspire honesty.” All the same woman. All true. All false.

I’ve stopped trying to erase my memories; now, I water them with gratitude. Because every heartbreak, every misstep, every wilted season tau

What I love most is he still make me laugh harder than anyone ever could. That laughter has carried us through seasons of stress